His mother lived to my home to have a rest

He is often go out at night, often get to go home until after midnight. Therefore we are noisy. At the outset I also consider, is it because he is not used to live with her, and my mom or he think I have my mother's company, not alone, just trust outside to play. Also discussed with the husband, we ChanGuo, let my mom oneself live, finally we both can't bear to, or continue to live with. I wonder if it's from then on, formed the habit of home he doesn't love.
The husband the bad temper, impatient, blunt talk tone. After an argument before we decide, often cold war, the longest about 2 weeks didn't speak. I feel he is not a man, he's with grace, it is hard to find a beloved feeling. From understanding to now, my income is always double. I have never abandon his low salary. Beginning with accumulation fund is withheld payments, and later with two people fight, withholding stop it, become a people, half loan wages their management.
I'm pregnant, the husband go to little more than playing CARDS, as far as possible at home with me. But feel he doesn't understand the life and what is the row, children and don't want to read a book to learn.
In my during after having a child, in order to take, my husband and my mom got into a huge fight, because he's not feeling my mom, I have no respect towards him speak, result he with me for a long time and the cold war. The child more than two months, father-in-law suddenly lung cancer, surgery, with more than 40000 colleagues he borrowed, gather together the part. During which he did not directly with I said, and I will take money out, I also have no active take money to his father to see a doctor. Don't know in this matter, if I do some wrong.

Then the husband be promoted to a department manager. Evening don't go home to have a meal again many times. Children are not, night has been weaned we took the kids to sleep. Then I said anyway, even at home there is a bed at night, I nursing a man brought children sleep, province all sleep. Results the number of home he the wee hours more. Sometimes, children become very night, I hold longer, and embarrassed, unable to her mother-in-law shout for help. Play the husband, he either phone CARDS or singing, just don't come back.
Go for the married man single you, may have some pride in what it can't. Nothing back, not last, but a short gentleness. As for the man, however, you are only a derailed object only. This can't survive in the sunshine of love, ever-present gnawed your heart, and you keep hurt yourself. Value of women, mostly don't want to put herself in this dangerous game.
I have to work during the day, and at night want to spend more time with children, also let the mother-in-law rest, have to do with a big dinner, household chores, often get in the middle of the night, the night nurse, the second day "to get up to. I don't know how that day come over. Probably bad mood, to the husband complain too much of the last month, when the examination, I incredibly long a 1 cm of uterine fibroids. One of the children age, my dad retired. I consult with husband, parents come over and help with the children, now I relaxed. But, husband evening go home to have a meal of fewer. The average weekly at home for dinner not more than 1 time. Most of the time in home after 12. If occasionally go home early, also because of drink many, home sleep.

With my basic communication. Nothing I have already didn't know what to say, the minimum requirement is more home with me, the husband promise to go home earlier, can put off the dinner party are put off, I hope I also understand the anguish, to let myself want to open some. I think he does not love to go home, the main reason for his own fun. Or, he told me a new problem. Between I can make sure no third party.

In addition to a life she and I don't have many words to say

Just when the feelings of love, we are especially good. At the time we are in the same school reading the same department. At that time, we dream can work together after graduation, and then married and have children. Later, the life of the separation is destroying our dreams.
In love relationships if keep a admits it, your reason and the fate of the encounter will naturally have not hurt and the occurrence of anyone. But the person's whole life is the more. And love is also differ in thousands ways. Any relationship, can you grow, to learn from them, if you into a not Aaron love, you can't escape the course arrangement destiny. If the conversion, the other half of your identity to undergo such problems, marriage those things cannot avoid the appeared.

Now, we see a few months, only a few days that face a gathering, besides a life she and I don't have many words to say, has become almost routine. She also said she hates me touch her, also said that if you could not bear lonely, you can to outside to look for the one, even if it is looking for a young lady she agreed.

Not long ago, we got into a huge fight, she said she repressed emotions broke out, also said that now I do not divorce because poor young son. Also let I don't touch her, can find out a lady, she really think so? I do?


D love marriage consultant:

When one is in love distance can produce beauty. But, once after the marriage, range is no longer to be beautiful, but the feelings of the fatal killer. Especially when you have children, and the children have to rely on women, such problems pulling more easily evolved into the divorce fuse.

Because you, she has long separation from the bottom to you very disappointed, marriage and sex are exclusive, but of course she face almost asexual separation life, have to find your lover or seek a young lady that she to you in fact is a paradox in the mood.
On one hand, the two sides separation life has let her husband and wife to normal adult life too much of the report, also don't want to worry too much about the expect you; On the other hand, women think often and say not consistent even instead. So, you 10 million don't really find lover or miss, in that case, your family and marriage is really over.

Why would be in love not Aaron

Father what all good, but it is hard to change frequently derailed. Ever since I can remember, they often for "the matter" fight, that time no hair salon, father nor money miss, but he always around to find the smell of similar woman. And his mother and every time after a quarrel, he can convergence a period of time, soon part repeat itself.
The small, to these kinds of things also not too concerned about, but fear that their quarrel, afraid of mother when no one's will to pursue. Sometimes all dare not to go to school after school, for the return to a home, would never see mother. Every time a mother will assurances, she will live until we come back from school, we will dare to let go of the mother's hand to school.
I hate to use special father, rope tied him up, help mother gave him a meal, beat him let him remember, never don't make such mistakes. But I, after all, is a daughter, can not do this. I also know that, even if I really do this, he also change. Every time he said must, before long, he will still be good pain is forgotten. Again and again to make mistakes. In this matter, I have no confidence in him. How much more a day, father, I have not days old rebuked him too much. Only the poor mother, every time I see her sad tears, my heart is always was much worried, but couldn't find a better solution. Some time ago to mother said to divorce, because we are against, and eventually she didn't also can get out of determination.
As a daughter, I am selfish, don't consider the mother's experience, just want to have a complete family. I often said to his mother, whether my father made DuoDa mistakes, that is afraid he is a murderer, and he's still my father. Even if again until the daughter becomes old, still hope to have a complete home.
The mother's whole life so come over, KanKanKeKe, didn't get the husband to yourself the respect that is due. Mother always said that his life is bad, with the so of man, only the bear pain for a lifetime. Her one thousand times, I don't know why I regret to make the choice of early divorce. I until they got married, becoming a mother, I knew real mother a lifetime of pain. Think of the mother, the in the mind will faint hurts, for mother sad, love dearly poor mother. As a daughter mother don't have the capacity to change the status quo, double only show consideration, filial piety mother, mother, let her mother comfort in the body of the children gain some consolation.
Now they will still for this argument, and I also the mother to endure?
Now, with a mature charm of the 30, 40 years old or so people, the biggest worry in love may be the same. That is no romantic moments. For older single men and women, it is not balanced sex ratio. When love comes, we really couldn't help it, can't control his feelings, this time, and how many people can stand the test of reason?

Why would be in love not Aaron?

Even now you had not fallen in love, but future events, who can't guess. If some day you go for good the married men, and not a how weird things.

D love marriage consultant:
Life there many similar mother, be bad husband injury to pieces, is full of holes, but couldn't help the child's threats and tears, in the trial of a life in pain marriage. If their sacrifice, can buy the happiness of the children, the problem is: a value also become desolate place oneself in the marriage, they pulled his own emotions are usually unable to control and how to supportive of their children to grow up. The younger you seemingly parents and proper, actually trembled and skating on thin ice even go to school will worry about mother, the kind of family 12 in the growth of the HeYan relaxed happy?